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The Ultimate Groomsmen Speech Guide
The Groomsman's Role in Wedding Speeches
While traditionally only the best man gives a speech, many modern weddings now include short toasts from groomsmen, especially those with a significant relationship with the groom. Your speech adds another perspective and layer of support to the celebration.
Essential Elements of a Great Groomsman Speech
- Quick introduction: Briefly explain who you are and your relationship with the groom.
- Share one memory or story: Include a single meaningful or subtly humorous anecdote that showcases your friendship.
- Acknowledge the couple: Comment briefly on their relationship and compatibility.
- Welcome the bride: Include a warm sentiment about welcoming the bride to your circle or what she brings to the groom's life.
- End with a simple toast: Keep it straightforward, such as "To [Groom] and [Bride] - wishing you a lifetime of happiness together."
Tips for Delivering a Successful Groomsman Speech
- Keep it very short—aim for 2-3 minutes maximum (around 300-450 words)
- Practice your speech several times before the wedding
- Speak clearly and slowly
- Make eye contact with the couple and guests
- Coordinate with other groomsmen if multiple people are speaking
- Consider having your speech on a small note card
- Stay sober until after your speech is delivered
Common Groomsman Speech Mistakes to Avoid
- Going on for too long
- Telling embarrassing or inappropriate stories
- Mentioning ex-partners or bachelor party antics
- Using inside jokes most guests won't understand
- Focusing too much on yourself rather than the couple
- Trying to outdo the best man's speech
- Drinking too much before your speech
- Making the same points as other speakers
Frequently Asked Questions
Do groomsmen give speeches at weddings?
While not traditionally required, it's becoming more common for groomsmen to give short speeches or toasts at weddings, especially when they have a close relationship with the groom. Sometimes all groomsmen will each share brief remarks, or one groomsman (besides the best man) might be designated to speak.
How long should a groomsman speech be?
A groomsman speech should be brief, typically 2-3 minutes (approximately 300-450 words). This is especially important if multiple groomsmen are speaking. Keep it concise while still expressing your heartfelt sentiments.
What should a groomsman include in his speech?
A groomsman speech should include a brief introduction of yourself and your relationship with the groom, a short personal story or reflection about the groom, observations about the couple's relationship, well wishes for their future, and a toast to the newlyweds.
When should a groomsman give his speech during the reception?
Groomsmen speeches typically come after the best man's speech or are integrated among other wedding party speeches. The exact timing should be coordinated with the couple and wedding planner. If multiple groomsmen are speaking, you may be assigned a specific order.
How do I differentiate my speech from the best man's?
Focus on a different aspect of the groom's life or your unique relationship with him. While the best man might cover broader aspects of the groom's character or longer history, you can highlight a specific quality, time period, or experience that showcases the groom from your perspective. Keep your speech more concise and complement rather than compete with the best man's speech.